the difference between men and women.

Hello everyone.
Today I would like to talk about a major difference I have noticed between men and women. I have lived with my fiancee for well over two years. As I am sure many of you have noticed that most men are extremely messy! I'm not stereotyping! I know some men who are extremely tidy as well as some women who are messy. However I have a theory as to why most men are messy.

In my opinion I believe that it comes down to how people enjoy there time. What I mean by this is that most men prefer to do chores as fast as possible so that they can enjoy the new video game they bought or leave to go out with their friends. While women on the other hand either feel relaxed from cleaning (Like me!) or feel the need to be tidy and in order before they can relax. Honestly when I am stressed out I go straight to cleaning and it relives my stress.

These different views in what is relaxing is what causes a majority of arguments (at least in my relationship) because we just don't get each other. For example while he is playing his video game and I am cleaning I may come in and say "why don't you come help me?" he will immediately protest and tell me he's busy. Which is true. He is only doing what I am doing. Relaxing!

For me at least when I look at the hard work I put into cleaning I feel really good about myself. I know I tried hard and I succeed. It is similar to the feeling I get when I complete a video game.
So what I am getting at is men and women are different. We need to keep that in mind.