the difference between men and women.

Hello everyone.
Today I would like to talk about a major difference I have noticed between men and women. I have lived with my fiancee for well over two years. As I am sure many of you have noticed that most men are extremely messy! I'm not stereotyping! I know some men who are extremely tidy as well as some women who are messy. However I have a theory as to why most men are messy.

In my opinion I believe that it comes down to how people enjoy there time. What I mean by this is that most men prefer to do chores as fast as possible so that they can enjoy the new video game they bought or leave to go out with their friends. While women on the other hand either feel relaxed from cleaning (Like me!) or feel the need to be tidy and in order before they can relax. Honestly when I am stressed out I go straight to cleaning and it relives my stress.

These different views in what is relaxing is what causes a majority of arguments (at least in my relationship) because we just don't get each other. For example while he is playing his video game and I am cleaning I may come in and say "why don't you come help me?" he will immediately protest and tell me he's busy. Which is true. He is only doing what I am doing. Relaxing!

For me at least when I look at the hard work I put into cleaning I feel really good about myself. I know I tried hard and I succeed. It is similar to the feeling I get when I complete a video game.
So what I am getting at is men and women are different. We need to keep that in mind.

Weight loss game

Ever heard that stress leads to weight gain because when you are stressed you eat more?
Many of us think that if we go on a diet we will lose lots of weight. Some of us even go to the extreme of even eating nothing or very little. However this is putting major stress on your body. Stress is very dangerous. If you change your diet to drastically your body will go into shock. NO YOU WILL NOT LOSE WEIGHT RIGHT AWAY FROM NOT EATING! In reality we should either slowly cut back on the calories and fat. As well as increasing our exercising.
What I have done so far in my weight loss journey is I have completely cut soft drinks out of my life. Not drinking soft drinks is really easy to do if you set your mind to it. This leads ultimately to you eating out less because you will notice that most fast food restaurants offer very little alternatives to pop. When you do eat out it will be at a healthier restaurant that provides you with more options or you will at the very least save yourselves from the unneeded calories and unhealthy chemicals that are in all soft drinks. 

I will continue with this blog another day. What do you think?